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Patience Jonathan, wife of the president has got the nod to use Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium by the Edo State Government despite applying for the stadium after Aisha Buahri, wife of the All Progressives Congress (APC) presidential candidate did same.

For avoidance of trouble, Governor Adams Oshiomhole of Edo pleaded with Mrs Buhari to allow Patience Jonathan use the stadium in a bid to allow peace reign in the state.

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In a statement signed by Louis Odion, Commissioner of Information and Orientation, he said: “The mix-up in the use of the Samuel Ogbemudia Stadium on Saturday, March 14, 2015 was occasioned by the laxity on the part of the officials of the Ministry of Sports who, without reference to their supervisors, proceeded to collect money and issue receipt only yesterday (Tuesday) to the PDP for use of the stadium knowing full well that the APC had, last week, applied for and got approval for use of same facility same day.

“In fact, jingles were already running on local television and radio stations announcing that the wife of APC’s presidential candidate, Hajia Aisha Buhari, would be in Benin on Saturday, March 14, 2015 to deliver the message of change to Edo women.

“For the avoidance of doubt, we wish to state that being the owner of the said facility, Edo State Government reserves the right to insist that the party that got approval first be allowed use of the stadium. In the circumstance, we imagine the idle denizens of Edo PDP must by now be salivating at the prospects of having an opportunity to unleash mayhem on peace-loving people of Edo State with the excuse that money was collected from them.

“But as civilized people, Comrade Adams Oshiomhole has directed that Mrs. Patience Jonathan, the First Lady, be granted use of the stadium on Saturday, while Hajia Aisha Buhari, wife of the APC presidential candidate will have her turn on another day,” the statement read.

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ce Prince, who started his music career and has achieved major success with Chocolate City, will be revealing his own label soon.

Choc City Boss, Audu Maikori speaking on the label said:

‘We are very happy with it, there’s no friction between both labels. Ice Prince also has Super Cool Cats, which is his new imprint and it’s coming out soon, one of the things Choc City set out to do is to be the mother body and create that platform for others to grow and we have encouraged that actively by supporting their projects.’

Ice had first made mention of Super Cool Cats music in an April 2014 interview with MTV UK.

There’s videos coming out from the ‘FOZ’ album, that’s what we’re on right now – we’ve put out ‘I Swear’ and ‘Jambo’ already out. We’re putting out ‘Whiskey’ and ‘Mercy’. I’ve got a mixtape called ‘Ice Prince and Friends’ dropping sometime this year. Apart from the music there is the ‘Zamani Foundation’ – a big project that I’m trying to push as well. Those are some of the things I’m up to right now.

There’s Super Cool Cats music, my new outfit, and I have a few artists that I want to introduce to the world. There’s a girl called Ruth and a guy called Stunt. They’re all super cool cats. And there are a lot of producers in that outfit as well.

Jose Mourinho has taken a swipe at Paris Saint-Germain ahead of the second leg of their Champions League last-16 tie by claiming the French champions are the “most aggressive” team Chelsea have faced this season.

Laurent Blanc's side travel to west London with the tie finely poised after a 1-1 draw in Paris in mid-February.

Mourinho was unhappy with the treatment dished out to Eden Hazard at Parc des Princes, with the Belgium international being fouled a record nine times throughout the game – though the referee issued just two yellow cards to PSG players during the clash.

“The most agressive team we've played this season is Paris Saint-Germain,” the Chelsea boss told reporters on Wednesday.

“I have to be fair, I thought an English team would never be surprised by aggressive play because we have it in our country.

“We've played against sides from the Championship in the Cup, against teams from League One and Shrewsbury [Town] from League Two, but the most aggressive team was PSG.

“For me, that was a real surprise. With players of such quality, I was expecting more football and less aggression.”

Mourinho also criticised the assertion that PSG dominated the opening leg, claiming that they “dominated in everything except the result”.

“It depends on your concept of football. If dominate is the number of chances, yes, Paris had more chances,” he said. “If dominate is to make foul after foul. Or to move the ball without progression.

1.Those who can never say, “sorry”

They would hurt you, annoy you, disappoint you, but would never apologise, because they believe that it would belittle and demean them. When you are wrong, you apologise to them, and when you are right, you still apologise to them, hoping that that they would change. But they never do. You start to feel irritated and agitated. The love and respect you felt for them start to wear away.

2.Those who can never say, “Thank you”

Whatever you do for them, they are never grateful. “Why should I say, ‘Thank you’ when you are just doing your duty?” Some would say that their gratitude is in their heart. Do you have to open a heart to see the gratitude and get it? Such an attitude causes irritation and frustration and unhappiness. Such people also believe the world owes them a lot. They go around their activities with an entitlement mentality. They are difficult to please.

3.Those who have excessive libido or inadequate libido

Sexual intercourse is a very important factor in marriage, but when you have a spouse that needs it for breakfast, lunch and supper, it is difficult to have any peace in the family. Infidelity also knocks on door. On the other hand, when you have a spouse that hates sex or thinks that sex should only be had once a year during the wedding anniversary or birthday celebration, there is also trouble in the house, and infidelity is usually a challenge.

4.Men who think women are to be seen but not heard

Some men still live in the 18th century, in spite of the depth of education they profess. It is true that marriage is not a zone for feminist crusade, but if a man has archaic views about women, then, please avoid him like an Ebola patient. Watch out for statements like: “How can an ordinary woman want to be the CEO?” “How can a woman chat with men?”

5.Women who believe they don’t need men in their lives

Such women believe that they are self-sufficient in all things. They have the I-don’t-give-a-damn attitude. Men feel ill at ease when they are with women who don’t allow a room in their lives for a man to fill. Such women find it difficult to express love. They fly into quarrels easily. This creates frustration and conflicts.

6.Men who are looking for housemaids, not wives

These are men who still live in the 15th century. They have an archaic idea of what the role of wives is. They believe that women are only meant to cook, clean the house, bear children, and serve the men.

They believe that when the men talk, women must just obey. The man can keep mistresses, but the woman should keep quiet and not even be seen greeting a man. A woman should not work, should not step out of the house, and should not complain whatever the man doles out to her.

7.Those who can never trust anybody

These are those who believe that everybody is a dangerous enemy that has evil designs against them. They have an obsession with fear of people, including their spouse, that it is irritating. Once a spouse cannot be trusted, there can never be joy in the family.

8.Those who have no respect for others

People can mouth love, but without respect, a marriage can never be happy. Women who love to prove a point by insulting their husbands, or men who believe in treating their wives without dignity in the name of cutting their wives to size: such people make terrible marriage partners.

9.Women who see all men as competition that must not be given an inch

Marriage is not a place for activism. A woman who sees a man as a competitor rather than a complement is a dangerous person to marry. When a man has to contend with a woman every minute, when a man is always too conscious of what to say or do to his wife, then there is a problem.

10.Those who can’t control their temper

Hot-tempered people are dangerous. They can utter anything in anger. They can do things that they will regret for life. They can be violent. Their words can be venomous. They can put you in trouble.

11.Those who cannot forgive

Forgiveness makes us look superhuman. But there are those who cannot forgive, no matter the circumstances. Not only can they not forgive, they can also not forget. Because they can’t forgive, they usually think of how to get revenge.

12.Those who have not been weaned by their parents

Age has little to do with maturity in marriage. Those who have not been “weaned” by their parents make poor marriage partners. They are full of “Mummy said”, “Daddy said”. They take every family discussion to their parents. They cannot do anything unless their parents approve. They allow their parents to run their homes in the name of showing respect to the mother-in-law or father-in-law.

Those who are tied to the apron strings of their parents make marriage tasteless. Such spouses are as a constant source of frustration and sadness. You will always be wrong. You will always be vilified.

In summary, marriage is not a bed of roses. There is nobody without some faults or idiosyncrasies. But it is foolhardy to walk into a landmine with one’s eyes open, praying and hoping that the explosive would not go off.

To avoid heartache, neither blind love nor desperation to get a married should push a bachelor or spinster to jump into a marriage with someone that will cause nothing but pain, sadness, and sorrow.

1.Don’t try to attract every woman, try to attract her. Stop dressing and acting like you’re hot stuff. You know the guy: the one that looks like he just stepped out from doing his test shots with a cheesy modeling agency, the one who gives The Look to every hot girl that walks by. Don’t be thatguy. Yes, women are initially attracted to this. But eventually they think that you’re more interested in attracting women in general, instead of attracting them .

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Don’t dress overly flashy and try to focus on wearing things that you know she likes, rather than trying to think about looking how you think women like. You should similarly save the flirting and close conversations for her and not use them with other women.

2 Take care of your body. Taking care of yourself shows her that you can also take care of her, if she ever wants to be taken care of. Practice good hygiene and exercise. You don’t need to worry about losing weight, but you should feel healthy and in shape. Similarly, eat a healthy diet!

3.Dress like you mean business. Dressing poorly by wearing clothes that don’t fit or have stains or holes show a woman that you don’t respect yourself (which doesn’t work in your favor!). Dressing in clothes that are out of date (too old fashioned), usually shows that you are mentally stuck in that time and cannot move forward. In order to show a woman that her heart is safe with you, dress in modern clothes that look good on your body, fit, and are clean.

4 Smell great. Women love someone who smells great. Shower regularly, use deodorant, brush your teeth, and you might
even want to consider using a cologne or body spray. Citrus scents usually make for a clean scent that isn’t overpowering, so they are a good place to start if you’re not sure.

5 Be confident. Confidence is sexy to everyone! Show her how confident you are by taking initiative, never talking poorly of yourself, and speaking up for yourself (with other people too, not just around her).

6. Be yourself. Remember: you are at your best when you are yourself. If a woman truly loves you, she will love you for who you are. When we act like someone we are not, sooner or later we’re not able to keep it up. Even if she would have loved you for who you really are, if she finds out you were faking she will feel lied to and may not love you anymore. Being yourself also helps you maintain your own happiness!

7. Respect her and everyone else. Youprobably know that you should respect her in order to win her heart (if you didn’t, now you know!), but remember that it’s also important to respect other people too. She’ll always worry, if she sees you treating others poorly, if you’ll treat her just as bad if she does something that makes you unhappy or does something else “wrong”. Respect her and others by allowing them to speak and be heard, acknowledging their opinions, never belittling them or treating them as anything other than your equal, neverlie to them, and never saying cruel things about or to them. Basically, be nice and polite!

8. Be passionate. You should be passionate in your relationship but you should also be passionate in your life. Being around someone passionate helps us to be more passionate and engaged in our own life, so we are naturally drawn to people like this and want them in our life more. Be passionate in your life by exploring and celebrating the things that make you happy and unique, without worrying about what
others think.

9. Bring the fun! Similarly to how we look for passionate people in our lives, we also like being with someone who makes our life
more fun. If you can bring the fun into her life by finding great things to do and new avenues to explore, then she’ll be completely in love.

10. Prioritize like a pro. Women have it a bit harder in life than guys. Most social systems put women at a disadvantage (they make less money than men, for example), and so they need a life partner that can help them in life, not make things even harder. If you want to win her heart, show her you’re not going to be a burden. Have a strong work ethic, help her out when you can, and show her that you value her over other women. One good way to show her that she is your number one priority is to not be bashful about letting people know that she’s with you and that you love her! Another way to show her that she is your priority is to make sure that you actually spend time with her! Don’t make her feel guilty about taking up your time and show her how much fun you’re having while you’re with her.Be financially stable and maintain a job. It doesn’t have to be a good one. Women will overlook a bad paycheck if they know they can rely on you and
don’t have to worry about what you do with that paycheck.
11. Give unexpected, targeted gifts. Yes, gifts are a good way to win a woman’s heart, but not just any gift will do. Gifts should show that you care and that you specifically care for her. You don’t want to give a gift that could be just as nice for your ex-girlfriend or your sister. Give a gift that is significant to her. Try giving her something in her favorite color, something she said she wanted or needed, or (best of all) something that reminds you of significant moments that you’ve had together or inside jokes that you share.

12. Ask her for advice and take it. Women, like anyone, want to feel useful. They want to feel like they serve a purpose, especially to
people that they care about. Let her be and feel useful by asking her for advice about problems that you have in your life.Importantly, you should take her advice and let her see that you’ve taken her advice.

13. Really know her. Know her for who she really is, not just who you want her to be or the face that she puts on for everyday life.
Talk to her about things that matter and find ways to show her that you get her. For example, buy tickets to a play that you don’t care about but that you know she really wants to see.