In a heartwarming ceremony in Calabar the port and capital city of Cross River, five African American ladies were officially welcome into the Abasi Ntiero Royal House, marking a significant chapter in their quest to reconnect with their Efik heritage. The event was graced by the presence of the Obong of Calabar, Edidem Ekpo Okon Abasi-Otu V, and witnessed the participation of Etubom (Arc.) Bassey Eyo Ndem, shedding light on the cultural inclusivity of the Efik people.
The Obong of Calabar expressed genuine enthusiasm for the ladies’ decision to trace their roots, stating, “It’s a welcome development. We don’t want to shy away from it. For those who want to trace their roots and have found somewhere convenient for them that they can actually fit in. Please don’t hesitate to do it. Do it. So I welcome all of you to Nigeria. I welcome all of you to Calabar. I welcome all of you to the palace of the Obong of Calabar.”
A representative of the American ladies conveyed their gratitude and sense of belonging, stating, “I feel that I am back home and I brought my sisters to be back home. Thank you very much for accepting us into your home.” The ladies, part of a community service-oriented association, chose to identify with their roots, seeking a deeper connection to their history and heritage.
During an interview with Chioma George from Chicago, Illinois, she shared her profound experience, describing it as an honor. She emphasized the significance of bringing her sisters to experience the same homecoming that had left a lasting impact on her years ago.
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Etubom (Arc.) Bassey Ndem, reflecting on the occasion, expressed immense pleasure at the accomplished American ladies identifying with the Efik culture. He acknowledged the emotional experience for the ladies and highlighted the importance of their return to their roots.
In response to questions about the status and inclusivity of the women in Efik culture, Etubom Ndem clarified, “They are now bonafide members of our family. They’ve been given the blessings of even our king, the Obong of Calabar. You saw us give them their membership certificate. They have every right now to be a part of the family, to vote and be voted for.”
The ladies, including Sandra Baker-Ekanem Abasi Ntiero, Amania Drane-Asari Abasi Ntiero, Brenda Camille Davis-Nkese Abasi Ntiero, Yvonne Taylor-Nkoyo Abasi Ntiero, and Dorletta Flucas Payton-Ekei Abasi Ntiero, hold notable profiles and backgrounds, reflecting a rich tapestry of achievements and community service.
The event showcased the cultural richness and acceptance within Efik traditions, providing a blueprint for other families to embrace and welcome those seeking to reconnect with their ancestral roots. The ceremony was not just a symbolic adoption but a deep and sacred initiation into the Efik family, reinforcing the spirit of inclusivity and cultural unity.
The ladies expressed their commitment to continuing their support for the Efik culture, promising to fly in from across the globe to participate in future cultural events. As they embark on this new journey, the Obong of Calabar encouraged other families to follow the path of openness and embrace individuals eager to reconnect with their ancestral heritage.